[louise.cara]

how do u no u are " together" and past the dating stage.. I have been dating this guy and it just seems like where together already. The way he always tocuhes me and looks at me. The way he wants to stay at mine and makes jokes about moving in. he says he thinks about me alot and we always speak every single day without fail. we havent actually said to each other about being offical but i would class him as my "man" coz i couldnt go with any one else while im seeing him. Am i right to do this?? and what u think he thinks from what ive said??

[KAZONE]

Simple, next time to see him - ask what you are to him. He will say what do you mean, say girlfriend, friend w/benefits, good friend, etc.You need to clarify it, he might be dating you and someone else, for all you know. Make sure. If he says girlfriend, then make it exclusive, as in you only see each other (monagamous).

[cloud 9]

Well if he's joking about moving in with you i think it's a given that you are together.As far as i'm aware people who are dating usually ask what they want from a mate before they go beyond dating to set the ground work to find out if the person is right for them.I come straight out with it and ask.Time to meet the parents i'd say.