[Martina kay]

k my mother got out of a 12 yr relationship with a abuser to all of us...so now shes rebounding to guys a year older than i am... i am 17 but still that fucking gross what should i say to her....

[timspot5000]

Get used to it, Cougars are on the rise. Everyone be on the look out for these man eating beasties.

[Becka]

tell her you feel uncomfortable about it. and that you understand she's upset and can be vulnerable but dating guys that you should be dating wont help her..

[Anthony G]

Um Mom he could be my brother...Or just start calling her Demi

[✌SANDRA✌]

OMG ! Tell ur mom to get a man herage .they are more mature for sure andwill understand her better

[ac_achen]

she's a cougar now! haha.

[Genny]

say to her hey mom i would really love to have an honest conversation mom: ok what do you want to talk about you:you know im seventeen and i really love you mom: yes what about ityou: i just find it akward that you are dating guys my age momh you: i would just hope that you take what i am telling you in positive way and im not trying to be mean or anything i just think you should start kinda dating guys your age or at least older then me mom:i didnt know you felt that way about thingsyou: yea so can you give it a try momk

[halfcrippledpony]

If I wasn't too weirded out by it, I'd talk to one of the guys she's dating. Just to kind of find out what makes them attracted to each other. Then maybe you can steer your mom in the right direction by helping her find something else that will give her what she's looking for.For instance, she might feel vulnerable or insecure around older guys with the ability to take advantage of her, as was done in said abusive relationship. Maybe find a guy that your mom feels comfortable around - someone who she already knows maybe, and get them to go on a casual date of sorts. Whether you have to talk him into asking her out or not. If this is bothering you as much as you say, you might have to work on it from both sides.If the problem's deeper, she may need some kind of counseling to get her out of this phase, and to help her move on from her old relationship.