[Shannon E.]

Well I call family members all the time, but they never hardly take initiative to call back. My mother is the only one that calls though. Why do you think this is?Why do you think other family members do not call.

[lemontartsue]

Maybe this is because they are expecting you to call because you do this for them all the time.

[Butterflied]

because in a way they are selfish,i believe family is very important.the same with cards for the holidays and so on.i think they are wrapped up too much into their own lives ,or think of themselves more superior.would you care to answer my question no one will answer?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/in...28AA3QBJ2maybe i should delete...

[h'ayim tov Y'all]

give a close listen to how they respond to your calls... are they only responding to your statements and not contributing themselves... that would indicate they may not really want to talk to you... are you calling to often?... always negative?... lots of reasons... look at your part of the equation... then too, they might just be uncaring jerks... when you figure it out do what you think is best