Do I need to freak out about sex/pregnancy?
My girlfriend and I recently had protected sex, but I can't stop worrying that something may have went wrong, much to her annoyance. Few people actually don't have the nerves for sex, but it looks like I may be one of them.Currently, we always use condoms and withdrawal. She's also been on the Pill, Loestrin 24, for over two years. I guess what I really want to know is if someone can describe the perfect use for all those methods, and tell us how safe we are.She took her pills perfectly leading up to intercourse, generally taking them before she goes to bed. The first night she was with me, she didn't take her pill until the following morning, which is when we had sex. In other words, it was about a seven-eightish hour difference from normal. The next pill she took was the following morning, so she was off her typical schedule but within 24 hours of the last one. She took another one that night, doubling up. She never missed two pills in a row and only had one exceed 24 hours from the last. We also used condoms, and I know how to put them on correctly. I'm a little worried that I did something stupid in the heat of the moment, like lay it on my penis inside out then flip it, getting some pre-cum on it. As an extra precaution, though, I urinated at least twice before we ever had sex and took a shower. To my knowledge, those steps combined with pulling out make the method perfect.I hate being like this, because I pretty much stress until her period and can't focus on anything, not to mention I freak out even more when she tells me that she's tired or has an upset stomach because my mind instantly goes to pregnancy despite our precautions. She never worries. Help?
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