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Old 08-07-2008, 01:26 AM
Jolene B Jolene B is offline
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Default My boyfriend just dumped me i'm pregnant and having the baby why doesn't he care.

Me and my boyfriend had been seeing each other for 7 months. We don't use condoms anymore so i know it's his.. I'm completly in love with him and i just found out that i'm pregnant i told him and he doesn't care he told me not to ever fuking call him agian. Why won't he help me.
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Old 08-07-2008, 04:40 AM
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He wont help you, because you were careless. Make a choice and stick with it. In his subconscience mind he doesn't see the mother of his offspring... He see's a loose girl who he had sex with during a time when both of you were getting to know each other... and if you had other boyfriends before and or during your courtship, then he has every right to question this unplanned baby you sprung on him. Do the math - 1 month of dating (assuming there was no sex) + 2 months of pragnancy = 4 months of sexual relations? and if you only dated on weekend then it equals to 12 weekends of sexual intercourse (give or take a weekend). What did you expect for him to do? Granted it only takes one time to get pregnant, but a woman has to set her priorities and plan her future for her own well being.Good luck
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Old 08-07-2008, 04:49 PM
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Sounds like he was using you. Sorry. But what the hell were thinking having unprotected sex with someone after 7 months. You knew this was a possibility.
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Old 08-10-2008, 03:50 PM
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some guys will say they love you and keep on saying so just to "get somewhere" with you.If you end up preg ofc they don't want to be tied down they'll get up and leave you.Life is roughbut you have to get through itsrry but seems like he didn't really care for you..only what you were giving him.well I wish you the best~♥Britxx
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Old 08-11-2008, 02:24 PM
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WELL STOP MOPING AROUND AND SALP DAT NIGGA IN HIZ FACE HOW DARE HE DISCLAME Ya BABY LYK DAT UNLESS U CHEATED AND HE FOUND OUT HIZ BROKE AZZGURL STOP WAT U DOIN AND BEAT HIZ AZZ AND TELL HIM DATZ HIZ BABY AND HE GNNA PAY CHILD SUPPORT IF HE DNT BELIVE U GO TAKE A DNA TEST TO PROVE IT
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Old 08-12-2008, 06:38 AM
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Many men are scarred of such a huge commitment, that they didn't really plan themselves. Is he young, because that could also have a lot to do with being scarred. He may be thinking he won't be able to go to college, or have the life he wanted.You guys should have planned for it though. Using no protection what-so-ever, will lead to a baby. A guy might have also decided it was your responsibility to go on the pill. Your best bet is to talk to him, explain that it is both of your guy's responsibilities. And if you or both of you can't and won't be good parents, be sure to at least give the child a chance at a better life, such as adoption or something. Just know this is a big responsibility, and it is something you are going to have to talk about. Good luck.
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Old 08-12-2008, 06:43 PM
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I am sorry you are living an all to common story. You need to tell your parents that your are pregnant and seek the father of this child out for at least financial support. You will be both a mother and father to your child, but if you come from a tight family it should work out.Good luck.
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