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children and can't have any. I'm 16? I can't have children. I really would love to have a child. I have a job and everything. I really would love for someone too Allow me this wonderful opp.. I would do everything for this child. Show it the best of ways.
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Honestly listen to what i'm saying, ive wanted a baby for ages and i'm only fifteen. you will not be able to support a child, even if you have a job. wouldnt you want your child to grow up where you have a steady relationship and your own house ect? if you cant have children then adopt one when your older and ready.
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meet my mother. she had her first child at 18. got married at 17. today shes got 4 kids me being the youngest. she didnt have a chance to study, go to university, and work in her favourite position, until she was 30. only then she went to college and stuff, and got her graduation about 6 years ago. moral of the story? my mom regrets the fact that she had kids so young, and married so young, because by now we wouldve had our own house here in south africa, our own business running here, and start earning more. the biggest drawback of her life was doing things too young. i dont take it as a offense, in fact i take it as the best advice she could give, and now i give to you. dont think too much ahead of your life, because youll do the same mistake, and then wish you hadnt done that in the first place. study, work, and get a good job. making children is easy, its tough to bring them up.
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Age doesn't equal maturity, so I wont tell you you're too young. However I do wonder if you're prepared. it takes more than a job to raise a baby. if you adopt/have a baby and will still work, who will watch the baby? would you have enough to pay for childcare? sweetie these are things that even 20,30,40year Olds struggle to balance. find out if you can babysit for someone. then see if youre really ready to be a mom full-time. I suggest you don't go about it the hard way, raising a child alone is hard. and it's not fair if you're expecting your parents to raise your baby. your life will never be the same. that said, I hope you can be a great mom in the near future.
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