[Babygirl98]

im in foster care and was on the adoption list then told them to remove me.i want to go to califronia when im out of highscholl(4 years) and if i got adopted then they wouldnt want me to move. the last cupple of times all the famileys backed out. was it better that i said to remove me or not?

[4113n]

Life is how you want to live it, if you have everything planned, money, how to survive alone then its up to you in the end

[Almond]

To be so young you are making some major decisions. You seem to know what you want to do, your rational and you thought this situation out. Yes, I think you did the right thing.

[Rosa]

Baby girl you can still be adopted and move. I know they won't want you to move but you can. I think you should think long term about this. If you get adopted they will be benefits like financial support if you need it, emotional support and a place to come home to if things don't work out. Also, this may sound a little weird but if your parents die you would be in their will. I know this sounds like it's all about the money but you have to think about your furture long term. I would want to be adopted and have a family I can call my own when I get older. Think twice about this. And, if a foster family really loves and cares about you they will adopte you anyway.

[siham]

I don't think think that was a right decision, because I think u wait and see who is the one opting for u and if they dont allow u to move may be they can give u a better life than the one in california, the best to make out of life is u think positive and move on

[sugarnspice962015]

Its your life. You choose how to run it. If you think what you did is ok, then its ok. Have fun in California! =]