[~Christina~]

Well first off you have to remember he is the father and you unfortunately have not been in the picture long enough to have much of a say so on the situation, so you really have no choice but to either deal with it and support both him and his daughter or move on with your life. But i will say he should never ever allow a boyfriend of a 14 yr old girl to even be in the same house let alone sleep next to each other, that is what promotes this kind of behavior with teens when the parents don't teach the proper methods of behavior!! But she is pregnant and neither of you can control that. If you love him and his kids then what's wrong with sticking with them through this?? I would just make darn sure that little girl is aware of the fact that no one is raising that baby but herself with of course some help considering her age and if she goes to school. There's gonna be a lot of obsticles and he needs to focus on this and help educate her in parenting and i'm sure you'll be a strong influence in that department considering you're a mother!! Good luck.