[Alison C]

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, we love eachother very much. I have known him for about 31/2 years through mutual friends. He has 2 children, a girl 14 and a boy who is 7. I have a daughter who just turned 9. We have talked about getting married. This past friday my boyfriend found out his 14 year old daughter is pregnant. He is going to be 35 the end of the month. I told him that he needed to take his kids to his parents and be with them with out us and deal with the situation. I have been suspecting something was going on with her for a couple months now. I tryed telling him that something was wrong with her.(Now she has had this boyfriend for a couple years now too) Her mother has encouraged them to be together and how cute are they. Then when they were spending too much time together and sneaking off to see one another, OH then they were grounded from seeing eachother, so they faked a break up! Then My boyfriend lets him come over for the weekend with us. I had gone out with a couple friends came home, His Kelly and Logan were sleeping on an air mattress. I went down stairs and my boyfriend was sleeping on the floor with his son. I told him he needed to get up and come up stairs. We got up stairs and i pointed and said are you going to do something about that? He said that they were fine. I was so mad I told him that it would never happen again and that I don't want that kind of influence for my daughter. He said he understood.Well Sunday we had plans to go pick up my new bed, we had to drive 2 hours away to pick it up, so we had some time to talk. He says he understands if I don't want to be with him now that kelly is pregnant. I told him that for right now he needs to not worry about us and worry about his kids, and that as a friend I will be there for him and my heart goes out to him and his family. I was a young mom too so I understand the emotions of an unexpected pregnancy at a young age. I know its not his fault! Should I stick by his side and deal with it????This is a big part of my life and I see them all the time. I thank you all for the input you have helped me. You all (most of you) are right. I do want to be there for him. What I don't know( and who knows) is when she comes here to stay with her dad and the baby is here. And her mother's side of the family has told him that he is to never come around again and that they will call the police if he does. Know you know as well as I do that first chance she gets she is going to run away with him. She thinks she loves this boy sooooo much and she probably realy does.