These words you've used to describe your wife are touching. Have you told them to her? Being a victim of abuse is not something one gets over easily. She has to forgive the abuser(s) and herself. Most abuse victims feel that they are the cause. Maybe you should suggest she see a therapist so she can let go of the hurt and realize it was not her fault.Tell her that what happened to her was not her fault and if she doesn't let go, it will rob of the joy she should be experiencing as a wife and mother. You seem like a very loving husband. Surprise her with flowers or "something beautiful for your beauty." Tell her how much you appreciate and love her kind soul.
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