[ladyjane7777@yahoo.com]

I am sorry to hear what your wife went through. I was sexually abused as a baby and a child. I had no self esteem. It took years for me to like myself again. I went through one relationship to the next thinking that i was not good enough for anyone. I got my strength back trough My Lord Jesus, but this does not work for everyone i know that. You are doing what you need to be doing loving her the way that you do. Its up to her to love herself. She needs to get professional help, and just be the loving husband that you already are. My heart goes out to you and you wife. God bless